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I Would Still Choose You ❤️‍🩹

Throughout all those years, you have remained the one who lingers in my thoughts. Despite the passage of time, my heart steadfastly continues to choose you.

When you asked me why I have been choosing you all these years, I struggled to find the right words in response. However, it later occurred to me that the true answer lies in the fact that you were the only person who treated me with kindness and respect. Not once did you cause me any harm. Your patience with me was unwavering, and your love for me was immeasurable. I held a special place in your heart, and I deeply regret the mistakes I made.

You did everything within your power to make our relationship thrive, while I, on the other hand, only managed to destroy it. You made numerous sacrifices for my sake, and yet I squandered them all.

I am unsure of when or how I will be able to forget you or cease loving you. As I have mentioned before and reiterate now, I have made the decision to let you go for the sake of your inner peace. I understand that this is also what you want me to do. You no longer want me to hold onto hope and wait for you. I have waited and hoped for over a decade, but what if I were to wait another ten years? Perhaps, one day, we may reunite and be together once more, though that remains uncertain. Nevertheless, one thing is unequivocal: I would still choose you.

Finding Strength in Release: Moving On from the One You Love ❤️‍🩹

Four years ago, you approached me with a significant request, asking for closure. Initially, I was taken aback, wondering why you would seek closure after eight years since our breakup. I questioned the meaning behind it and the timing, considering our intermittent communication over the years. Eventually, you simply expressed a desire to start a new chapter in your life. Although you didn’t specify the nature of this chapter, I understood the implications. It frightened me because I wasn’t prepared to let go. Throughout all those years, I held onto hope, wishing we could reignite what we once had and make things right this time. I never grew tired of pleading for another chance, yet you remained resolute in moving forward without me.

The pandemic prevented us from seeing each other for a couple of years. While you continued to reject my pleas for reconciliation, I focused on self-improvement. I dedicated myself to becoming a better version of myself for our sake. I wanted you to be proud of me and witness my efforts to earn your love once more. I silently worked on building a successful career, intending to surprise you. However, I received an unexpected shock when a friend informed me of your recent marriage. I was left speechless, flooded with numerous questions. Why? Why so soon? Yet, I realized I had no right to ask.

Subsequently, I contemplated meeting you one last time, to assess if I still deserved a place in your life and if I truly wanted you in mine. Finally, the day arrived when we reunited. Ironically, I still lack an answer. Yet, one thing remains certain—the love we shared was never extinguished; it endures.

Over the years, I’ve come to realize my selfishness, both towards myself and towards you. I only considered my own convenience, neglecting your needs. Although there are countless things I wish to express to you, it is best to keep them to myself. What matters most is your happiness and fulfillment. You deserve all the love, care, and respect from the person you chose to spend your life with. Challenges may arise, but I have no doubt that you will overcome them. You are an incredible individual, always remember that. May every memory you create with her bring you solace.

Now, I will let you go and accept that our chapter has concluded. Know that you will forever hold a special place in my heart, and I will forever cherish the goodness you brought into my life.

The One That Got Away 🌈

The “one that got away” is a phrase commonly used to describe a person with whom we had a chance at a romantic relationship but for one reason or another, it didn’t work out. Whether it’s because of timing, distance, or missed opportunities, the “one that got away” is a concept that has haunted many of us at some point in our lives.

When we look back on our past relationships, it’s natural to wonder what could have been if things had worked out differently. Maybe we regret not taking a chance when we had the opportunity, or maybe we wish we had acted differently in a specific situation. Whatever the case may be, the “one that got away” often leaves us with a feeling of unfinished business.

But while it’s easy to get caught up in what could have been, it’s important to remember that the past is the past. It’s easy to romanticize a relationship or a person, but the reality is often much more complicated than we remember. The truth is, we don’t always know what would have happened if things had gone differently. Maybe the relationship would have fizzled out quickly, or maybe it would have lasted for years. There’s really no way to know for sure.

It’s also important to remember that there are other people out there. While it’s natural to focus on the one who got away, there are plenty of other potential partners who could be an even better match for us. It’s easy to get stuck in a cycle of regret and what-ifs, but that won’t get us anywhere. Instead, we need to focus on the present and the future, and be open to new experiences and new relationships.

That being said, it’s okay to acknowledge the one that got away and the feelings that come with it. It’s normal to feel a sense of loss or regret when we think about a relationship that didn’t work out. But we shouldn’t let those feelings consume us. Instead, we should use them as a learning experience and a way to grow and improve as individuals.

In the end, the “one that got away” is just a part of our romantic history. It’s a reminder that we’ve taken risks, put ourselves out there, and experienced love and heartbreak along the way. While we may never know what could have been, we can take comfort in the fact that we’re still here, still growing, and still open to new possibilities. Who knows what the future holds? Maybe the next relationship will be the one that doesn’t get away.

Maintaining Good Mental Health 🧠

Mental health is an essential aspect of our overall well-being, yet it is often neglected or overlooked. Mental health issues can affect anyone regardless of age, gender, or social status. However, there is still a stigma surrounding mental health that prevents many people from seeking help or speaking openly about their struggles.

Mental health refers to our emotional, psychological, and social well-being. It affects how we think, feel, and behave in our daily lives. Good mental health enables us to cope with the normal stresses of life, work productively, and maintain healthy relationships with others. On the other hand, poor mental health can lead to a range of problems, including anxiety, depression, substance abuse, and even suicide.

It’s important to understand that mental health is not just the absence of mental illness. It is a state of well-being that includes resilience, the ability to bounce back from difficult situations, and the capacity to enjoy life to the fullest. Here are some tips for maintaining good mental health:

1. Take care of your physical health: Good physical health is closely linked to good mental health. Eat a balanced diet, exercise regularly, and get enough sleep. Avoid drugs and alcohol, as they can have a negative impact on your mental health.

2. Stay connected: Social connections are essential for good mental health. Make time for friends and family, join a club or organization, or volunteer in your community.

3. Practice self-care: Take time for yourself every day to do something you enjoy, whether it’s reading a book, taking a walk, or meditating. This can help reduce stress and improve your overall sense of well-being.

4. Seek help when needed: If you’re struggling with your mental health, don’t hesitate to seek help. Talk to your doctor or a mental health professional, and consider joining a support group.

5. Be kind to yourself: Practice self-compassion and avoid self-criticism. Treat yourself with the same kindness and understanding you would offer to a friend.

In conclusion, taking care of our mental health is just as important as taking care of our physical health. By prioritizing our mental well-being, we can lead happier, healthier, and more fulfilling lives. Remember, it’s okay to not be okay, and seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness. Let’s break the stigma surrounding mental health and start talking openly and honestly about our struggles.

Failure & Success

How has a failure, or apparent failure, set you up for later success?

Failures or setbacks are often viewed negatively, but they can be valuable learning experiences that set us up for later success. One way in which failure can lead to success is by teaching us resilience and perseverance. When we encounter failure, we have an opportunity to reflect on what went wrong and learn from our mistakes. This process can help us develop new strategies and approaches that may be more effective in the future.

Furthermore, failure can also give us the opportunity to take risks and pursue new opportunities. When we are not afraid to fail, we are more likely to take risks and try new things, which can lead to unexpected successes. Sometimes, it is the process of trying and failing that helps us discover new paths and opportunities that we may not have considered otherwise.

Overall, failure can be a valuable teacher that helps us develop new skills, strategies, and perspectives. It can also encourage us to take risks and pursue new opportunities that can ultimately lead to greater success. The key is to view failure as a learning experience and to use the lessons learned to move forward and achieve our goals.

Single Parent 🧑‍🍼

Single parenthood is a challenging and often overwhelming experience, but it can also be an incredibly rewarding one. As a single parent myself, I have experienced the highs and lows of raising a child alone, and I want to share my thoughts and experiences with others who may be in a similar situation.

Firstly, I want to acknowledge that being a single parent is not an easy road. You may feel alone and unsupported at times, and the financial and practical challenges of raising children alone can be daunting. However, it’s important to remember that you are not alone. There are many other single parents out there who are facing similar challenges, and there are also support groups and community organizations that can offer support and resources.

One of the biggest challenges of single parenthood is the juggling act of managing work, household duties, and parenting responsibilities. It can be tempting to try to do everything yourself, but it’s important to ask for help when you need it. This could mean hiring a babysitter for a few hours a week so that you can take some time for yourself, or asking a friend or family member to help with household tasks or childcare.

Another important aspect of single parenthood is self-care. It’s easy to put your own needs last when you’re focused on caring for your children, but it’s essential to take care of yourself in order to be the best parent you can be. This could mean taking a yoga class, going for a walk, or simply taking a few minutes each day to meditate or practice deep breathing.

One of the things I’ve found most rewarding about single parenthood is the bond I’ve developed with my child. When you’re the sole caregiver, you have the opportunity to create a very special and close relationship with your children. This can be a wonderful experience, but it can also be challenging when you’re dealing with behavioral issues or other challenges. It’s important to remember that parenting is not a one-size-fits-all approach, and you may need to try different strategies to find what works best for you and your children.

Finally, I want to emphasize the importance of seeking out support and resources as a single parent. Whether it’s joining a support group, reaching out to a therapist, or connecting with other single parents in your community, there are many resources available to help you navigate the challenges of single parenthood. Remember, you are not alone, and there is help available when you need it.
In conclusion, single parenthood is a challenging but ultimately rewarding experience. With dedication, support, and self-care, you can raise happy, healthy children and create a fulfilling life for yourself and your family.

f i k a 🏝️

It’s easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of everyday life, constantly rushing from one task to another without taking a moment to breathe. But sometimes, it’s important to slow down and appreciate the good things in life.

Whether it’s spending time with loved ones, enjoying a beautiful sunset, or simply savoring a delicious meal, taking a moment to appreciate the small joys in life can have a big impact on our overall well-being.

So, the next time you find yourself feeling overwhelmed or stressed, take a deep breath and pause for a moment. Look around and take in the beauty of your surroundings, and remind yourself of all the good things in your life that you are grateful for.

By slowing down and appreciating the good things, you can cultivate a greater sense of mindfulness and joy, and live a more fulfilling life.